The real Apology – 3 steps you’re missing

"An apology without change is just manipulation" Believe it or not, you might actually be manipulating your way out of situations and keeping "an evil circle" revolving around you. A repetition of the same, as you keep saying that you're sorry. Apologies are great and of course, apologizing softens the hearts of many in the...

Stop bending over for people to ride on your back!

"Nobody can ride on your back unless you bend over!" Happy new year! Happy new decade! Yes the 2020's are upon us and we're starting the new year with #SuccessSaturday which will be our blog post day! Otherwise,we have 3 days of content each week lined up!2019 has taught me a lot of things and...

Kutangulia sio Kufika!

"Run your own race. Life is not about being better than others, it's not about beating others. Life is about beating your former self!" It's been a while! I know but I haven't let go of my blog! That's not happening anytime soon either! I've been thinking lately and I recently envisioned a scenario! Two...

True love is built, not found

"Far too often we seek that which we can't find, forgetting that much of what we seek, is what we already have. We just need to mould it, into what we desire" #CoupleGoals is the order of the day! The continuous public display of affection that we see all over the place and more so,...

Don’t sell a dream and deliver a nightmare

"Fake love is when the person loves you until you do something wrong and they leave you. True love will do whatever it takes in any circumstance to make things work. True love is not forced and does not need an audience. It's genuine and does not hide. It radiates no matter where you are, or whom it...

You cannot re-invent when you haven’t invented

"A tree never grows from the branches and down to the roots, it grows from it's roots and up to the branches" It's been a while since I have written on my blog but you know, sometimes life happens. Sometimes you need to take a break to refuel and also, fill up what you have...

They can’t give what they don’t have

"Don't seek advice from people who don't have what you're looking for" I remember at a time I used to depend on individuals so much that I had a friend who I would go to in every situation. Looking back, I feel that I trusted this individual more than I trusted myself which obviously is...

A Transitional Possession

"Physical beauty is passing – a transitory possession – but beauty of the mind, richness of the spirit, tenderness of the heart aren’t taken away but grow! They increase with the years!” - Anonymous I recently had a conversation with a young man, a very dear friend. I asked him what he seeks in a...

We are all haters!

“The hated man is the result of his hater’s pride rather than his hater’s conscience." Have you noticed that scandals, mistakes, and slip-ups, are what news and viral videos are all about today? In the past 4 weeks, I have witnessed stories that have gone viral within a matter of hours, even minutes and none...

As long as there is tomorrow there is hope

"Victoria how do you do it?" "Victoria how do you wake up every day and get the energy to keep moving?" I think these are two of the most frequent questions I get from individuals. My answer is simple, as long as there is tomorrow, there is hope! Quite too often, individuals live without an...